I’m supposed to be on a brief holiday in Hangzhou, but couldn’t resist posting about this AP article: Beijingers get dress code advice for Olympics.
One of the things that has always bothered me about China is the way that “officials” treat the public like children. Now certainly, anyone that has been in China for more than 30 seconds realizes that the public doesn’t go a long way to dispel a need for this sort of overseeing, but I rather strongly believe that when you treat someone like a child then you simply encourage them to act like a child.
I also understand that the upper-class and growing middle-class of Beijing (and China at large) lay awake nights worrying that their foreign counterparts are going to come to their country and believe that ALL of China, and all Chinese, have the civility and manners of the sweet potato hawker (in all ways) on the corner.
But for a country so sensitive about its pride and its face, what does it do to the psyche of a nation knowing that the rest of the world is reading it had the need to create an Office of Capital Spiritual Civilization Construction Commission because the citizens aren’t “civilized” enough to dress themselves?
BEIJING – Polishing up Beijing for the Olympics has extended to telling residents what not wear, with the city government advising against too many colors, white socks with black shoes, and parading in pajamas.
The advice, on top of campaigns to cut out public spitting and promote orderly lining up, was handed out in booklets to 4 million households ahead of the Olympics, an official said Thursday.
The etiquette book giving advice on everything from shaking hands to how to stand is part of a slew of admonitions on manners, said Zheng Mojie, deputy director of the Office of Capital Spiritual Civilization Construction Commission.
“The level of civility of the whole city has improved and a sound cultural and social environment has been assured for the success of the Beijing Olympic Games,” she said.
Tips Include
- There should be no more than three color groups in your clothing.
- Wearing pajamas and slippers to visit neighbors is out.
- Dark-colored socks are recommended, and white socks should never be worn with black leather shoes.
- No public displays of affection
- Feet should be slightly apart or in the shape of a V or Y when standing
- Handshake should not last more than three seconds
- Don’t ask foreigners their age, marital status, income, past experience, address, personal life, religious belief or political belief
These tips have been added to the ban on spitting (in Beijing at least) and Patience In Line Day (the 11th of each month).
Campaigns involving nearly a million volunteers have been launched to give etiquette tips at schools, universities and government offices. In some districts university students have been encouraged to go to villages to educate rural people, she said.
“Such campaigns and educational activities are now gradually improving the lives of Beijingers, for example now you’ll find more smiling faces and people are more properly and elegantly dressed,” she said.
People have formed a habit of queuing for buses, she said. At more than 1,000 bus stops in the city people are queuing up, she said. “This has already become a habit for the Beijing citizens,” Zheng said.
As poor as the Chinese dress sometimes, at least they don’t wear “No Fear” t-shirts and jhorts. Or sweaters tied around their necks with popped collar polo shirts. So, I think poor dress is common amongst everyone. One world! One need to all watch “What Not to Wear”!
I quite like the openness about things like income and beliefs. I find it hard to have a genuine conversation with people when in the west as everyone is so closed about everything and people are so afraid of offending each other.
I agree with your overall sentiment that treating people like children will only encourage them to behave as such however some direction is necessary. I recall decades ago in Hong Kong TV ad’s educating folk not to throw things off their balcony.
Logical though it may seem, people back in the day did just throw their trash 10-20 stories down into the street and injuries cause by falling debris was common. This rarely happens today.
Still in Hong Kong Jackie Chan encourages service staff to smile and actually be courteous in various forms of propaganda.
So as much as these rules seem remedial, sometimes it is necessary to get the ball rolling to encourage change.
I’m just surprised they didn’t advise people not to wear shirts with English on them unless they know exactly what it means. (And I’m speaking to you, dude who wore a shirt that read “Assume The Position” at lunch today.)
Also:
Or sweaters tied around their necks with popped collar polo shirts.
The popped collars are here among young urban Chinese. The sweaters are coming soon.
@T: Am I better for not knowing what a jhort is? Re: No Fear t-shirts, have seen a few of them on Chinese here – have even seen a bumper-sticker or two.
@Dedlam: I don’t disagree – though I think there’s a pretty big gap between public service announcements to avoid injury, and telling someone not to wear white socks with black leather shoes.
The thing I can’t believe: that long list of things not to talk about with foreigners, and no mention of the fact that most Westerners don’t respond well to the comment, “Wow, you’re really fat.”
yeah the popped collars are everywhere in China. Two rules to remember when wearing them though:
#1. If you are wearing a Kappa collard shirt, you MUST pop your collar. If it isn’t Kappa it is optional.
#2. You must pop it in the back but keep it traditionally turned down in the front. In other words, “Business in front, Party in back.”
enjoy.
@Dim Summary
I totally despise the “You’re so fat! You should do some exercise!” comment. One time, I had five of my coworkers have a say on my weight in front of me at the same time!
THAT is one thing Chinese shouldn’t talk about to foreigners.
The fat thing:
It goes along with the general mockery of difference, anything not in accordance with the national stereotype.
It’s the same reason students won’t speak in class, fear of making a mistake and being ridiculed. The flip side of this, of course, is the national pastime of ridiculing others for any reason you can think of.
Ridicule is social pressure to influences the individual.
This is why I think China’s cultural influence on the world will be limited. Because frankly, it’s not inclusive. It’s Sino-centric pure and simple. I’m not going to hold my breath for social enlightenment. You can if you like.